He is married, and you find yourself deeply in love with him. You have given your heart to someone who is unavailable, and you are caught in a whirlwind of emotions. This situation goes against everything you have believed in, and it hurts. No one can tell you to stop loving him.
However, it is important to consider a few things. You deserve more than living half a life. He may have lied about his marriage, leading to questions about what else he may lie about. His family will always come first, leaving you alone on important days. Waiting for him to leave his wife may result in putting your life on hold.
It may feel like true love, but waiting for someone who cannot give you their full attention may only feed your insecurities. You deserve complete love and attention every day. You are worth more than being second best.
It may be difficult, but walking away could lead to healing and finding a partner who will be there for you always. Remember, this situation can happen with either gender.
Blessings to you all, may you find love and happiness in your life.